be with them…

the intention of this blog entry is to share a valuable insight which i learned from my marriage. it came after the divorce and a few years after she was already remarried. and yes, i did share the insight with her because she deserved to hear it.

the intention of this post is NOT to save you and/or any relationship you might be in as you are reading this :)

i didn’t get it…. it’s that simple. no blame. no shame. no guilt. i was unable to hear and feel the moment at the time. she wanted to go to target together. where as i saw an opportunity to be efficient with our time. “you go to target and i’ll go here and then we will be done sooner” was my logical thought process. i didn’t hear and feel that she just wanted to spend time together…be together. the activity was irrelevant.

move beyond logic 😘